There is no right or wrong, no should or shouldn’t really in this.

There are men and women who only seek sexual connection in a romantic relationship or primarily a sexual connection and everything else kind of becomes a duty for them because the primary need is fulfilled.

While there is nothing wrong with this per se, it is important for both partners to be well aligned in this regard.

Compatibility is not only physical or sexual, emotional and intellectual compatibility is supremely important too.

And this understanding of what you primarily crave for in a romantic relationship is part of the emotional and even bit of intellectual compatibility.

It is not merely about having identical IQ / EQ scores. It is about sharing a comparable zeal for life and learnings; values and purpose.

~ thoughts in solitude ~